For those who are unaware, I am in a current search for my biological father...

I posted an ad in kijiji, in Belleville, Hamilton, Kitchener, London, and Kingston...

Hoping anyone had heard of Gary Creighton...

See I only know his name and the rough estimate of his age and when he and my Mother were together...

So I posted these Jan 1st...God has called me to have this be my year of closure...

I get the following message yesterday:

We all know your not Talking too ur mom Kelly But You should not publicly oprint her Last name on Kijiji without her permission... good luck in ur search. Mary ps you need edit this ad and just say Gail no needd for our last namer or U will be reported!

--I have an Aunt Mary, my Mom's sister...so I write back this:

you should really ask yourself what would make me not talk to her anymore?

She replies:

Kelly Kelly Kelly... I did not write too you too argue any rights or wrongs.... Life is far too short...

I reply:

so you are my Aunt?

She says:

Yeah Guess so lol Thank you for Taking off the last name Again I Wish you Luck!!! in your Search

----I am at this point thinking oh ok, so no how are you? and what made you suddenly not talk to your Mom? or I miss you...

I say:

If you know anything I ask you to please tell me...

She says:

In total Fairness I know Nothing All I know Abt him is what I knew before you were Born.. I was the One who went up and brought your mom home after he beat her silly >>> maybe he has changed any how I will honour wish and Not email you...

Aunt Mary

I then say:

Do you know how old he was, when they were together compared to her? or his birthday? please Aunt Mary, I need to get this over with and in my past..

She then says:

I called ur Mom just now and She says she has ALL his contact info and- You know what too do...See I never bothered over the years so I am no help....Your Mother is only one has ALL the info you need too get ahold of garry .

Aunt Mary ... I do wish you luck and remember Kelly Life is TOO short...

----She called my Mom!, read carefully, she said my Mom said that, and the 'you know what to do' is so my Mom...

And how convient it is that my Mother has the only info I need, can anyone say the enemy not wanting me to succeed, and trying to give me an easy out, but their is a price, so I am not going to go that route cause it is BS anyway, my Mother's games....

I cried alot yesterday, but a friend who is good at looking for people gave me encouragement and ideas, she also raised a question, why was my Aunt in Kijiji in that section? hmmmm???

I do believe that my Aunt knows more than what she is saying to me of course, and right now my Mother probably thinks she has the upper hand and probably is also furious I am looking for him....

I also said to my Aunt that I loved her and my Nan (grandmother) and the family and that would never change, but my Mother gave me no choice....

She never responded back after her last e-mail and I do not expect to hear from her again, I felt such rejection, it was hard, but I am not about to let 3 1/2 years of progress with the Lord and healing go out the window though...

So head up and onward I do, no regrets, and no looking back...the enemy only wants to pull me down...